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Welcome to
INFJ.com!
I
recently initiated a monthly call-in meeting called "INFJ
Front Porch Chats." We've covered some interesting topics
thus far. Look for the link in the navigation
menu to learn more about them, sign up for them, and to listen to the
recordings of the Chats we've had.
You
probably want to know who I am, and what qualifies me to author this
site. Hi! My name's Vicky
Jo, and I have preferences for INFJ! (In unison now -- "Hi, Vicky
Jo!") I'm trained in the Interstrength
MethodTM,
which includes MBTI®
certification as part of its program. I have experience with all
five of the models I will be referencing -- MBTI Dichotomies, Temperament, Interaction
Styles, Cognitive Processes, and Beebe Archetypes. Furthermore, I've read extensively on these topics
for several years, not to mention attending meetings, conferences, and
workshops (and presenting them!). So I'm
really creating this site for myself as much as
anything. I'll be quoting and citing a variety of sources, so it's not just my
voice you'll hear! (I confess I also sneak a little bit of life
coaching in along the way.)
It's worth
noting that I don't include much "ISs do this" and "TJs do that" on this site. This is the wrong site if
that's what you're
looking for. I
feel type is systemic and wholistic, and too much letter talk ends up being
restrictive rather than empowering. That especially goes for that last letter -- J/P -- which
has all manner of inaccurate stereotypes associated with it.
I utilize a
slightly different approach to type than most type users. I don't box people in
using four dichotomies the way the MBTI is designed to do. I'm trying to
get people out of boxes they may be in without realizing it! I strive to
treat the functions as verbs, and I believe we all have the
potential to develop those verbs. (I dislike restricting anyone's
potential!) At the same time, I believe we're born a certain type, and we
flower into that type through the course of our lives and through its many
seasons. (Perhaps this seems
like a paradox, but isn't that the nature of being human?)
Type simply
describes what one is naturally good at, so I look to it as a model of
development. The upshot is
that you won't find much "alphabet soup" here, and I treat the code as
a starting point rather than an end-point.
What
possessed me to tackle this
web project? Okay, twist my arm and I'll tell
you. #1 Because I got tired of people
misunderstanding what the INFJ pattern looks like or how it manifests.
#2 It seems that people are hungry to learn more about type, but they
don't know how to access or utilize this knowledge on a day-to-day
basis. #3 Because I got tired of type being treated like "trait"
theory, and wanted to fight back against broad, sweeping (need I say
inappropriate?) generalizations based on limited understandings of type. As you will soon discover, I have some passion around
applying type, especially
when it comes to exploring my own particular type code, and this website seems like
the best outlet for expressing myself.
You
can get started navigating this site by clicking on the dolphin at the
right or on the bottom right side of this block. I just replaced the
navigation system, and I'd be grateful to hear of any mistakes I made
implementing it.
I add
additional data whenever the spirit moves me -- I have little collections, computer
documents, varied scraps of paper, and xeroxes piled around that someday may coalesce into a
new page, a new paragraph, a new phrase. There's no grand strategy -- the
100+ pages on this site somehow mushroomed into what you see now. It's
like a blog before they had blogs. Eventually
I'll give it all a facelift. In the meantime, if you
spot a typo or other error,
I'd be grateful if you'd let me know so I may correct it (we know how
devoted to precision we INFJs
are. Can I hear an "amen!"?).
For
those who want to be on the "cutting edge" of Type theory, I recommend
my CD introducing the sophisticated eight-level model of psychological types:

Type
Insights: The 8-Level
Model of Psychological Types
Speaking of "cutting
edge," there was a big announcement in the type world last spring.
CPP announced its release of MBTI®Complete, an online assessment package that
allows anyone to take the instrument on their personal computer at their own
pace (in their own time) without the aid of a professional facilitator!
If you'd like to experience MBTI®Complete, I invite you to
sample this new instrument. It's competitively priced and it's
available on my website here: MBTI®Complete
I
have a feedback form, if you'd
be kind enough to give me some. And a recommended
reading list. I also put
up a blog so you may comment on what you read and we can start piecing
together a "quilt" of INFJ interaction. (It's nearly blank right
now, so have at it! You don't have to become a member in order to
comment. Just click "other" and provide a moniker.)
Please sign
my guestbook and share something about
INFJ (being one or observing). There's also a form to provide your
email address if you want me to notify you when I add significantly to
the site (of course I do not abuse your email
address).
If
you're interested in having a professional facilitation to discover your
best-fit pattern and really own and apply it,
visit my website: Type
Insights.com I offer coaching services, teleclasses, career assessments,
and even interactive guided imagery (which is ideal for accessing your own
iNtuition). If you don't know what coaching is, here's a
link to a college paper that one of my Catalyst clients wrote to give some sense of the
process.
Thanks
for visitin g!
I hope you get something worthwhile from the time you spend here. Let
me know what you think!
P.S. I get
lots of encouragement about finishing this site. Ha! In the
first place, I doubt it will ever be "finished." In the
second place, this is a hobby project and I fund it entirely out
of my own pocket, so it ends up on the back burner a lot. Sorry!
Sign up for my mailing list to be notified of significant updates,
or check back from time to time. If there's a particular
conversation you're starving to have, drop me a line and consider
co-active coaching with me. It doesn't hurt -- honest!
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