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Clarifying INFJ

The value of having multiple models is that each brings different information to further illuminate or differentiate the subject under study. 

Eue, that sounds cold and scientific, doesn't it?  Let's put it another way. The value of having different "lenses" or models is that each one helps people understand aspects of themselves different than the other model does. But each lens can confirm and validate the other lens and also help make valuable distinctions. 

It's an unfortunate reality that human beings tend to over-generalize when we categorize, and generalizations soon begin to resemble limitations.  By using multiple models, we prevent people from getting pigeonholed or put in a box!  

Multiple lenses also help us shift our perspective.  How does that saying go? -- If all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.  So rather than over-using a "hammer" to nail down someone's best-fit Type, it might be better to back off and switch to a different tool.  Perhaps a screwdriver would be more effective.  Maybe a staple-gun.  Before I abuse this metaphor further, my point is that using a variety of tools is the best way to discern something as mutable* as psychological Type.  

Having worked with multiple models for a time now, I couldn't do without the Temperament tool -- and neither would I want to give up the Cognitive Process or Interaction Styles tools.  What's great is how well they work with each other!

I will be discussing all three of these models on this website as they pertain to INFJs. 

If you are struggling to decide on your best-fit type, the table below offers some dimensions within each of the models that you may wish to explore in order to reach a better understanding of which type fits you best.  In a perfect world, you should understand and identify with the aspects associated to INFJ in all three models.  (You can use the tables below as checklists.  If you don't understand a term or aspect, I suggest you trouble yourself to learn about it instead of going off and calling yourself "X" or saying you're on the fence!)

LOOKALIKES TO EXPLORE


Be sure to explore these other dimensions of Temperament in order to clarify INFJ.  (INFJs are "Catalysts" or "Idealists," so these names are used interchangeably throughout the site.)

Use of Language...

Stabilizer Concrete
Improviser Concrete
Catalyst Abstract

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Roles they play...

Theorist Pragmatic
Improviser Pragmatic
Catalyst Cooperative

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Attention paid to...

Theorist Structure
Stabilizer Structure
Catalyst Motive

Refer to this booklet for more information:

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Understanding Yourself and Others:
An Introduction to the 4 Temperaments - 3.0
 
by Dr. Linda Berens

This model particularly helps distinguish INFJ from 
_ _T_ or _SF_.


Be sure to explore these other dimensions of Interaction Styles in order to clarify INFJ.  (INFJs have the "Chart-the-Course" style.)

Communications...

In-Charge Initiating
Get-Things-Going Initiating
Chart-the-Course Responding

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Role-Definition...

Behind-the-Scenes Informing
Get-Things-Going Informing
Chart-the-Course Directing

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Interest in...

In-Charge Control
Behind-the-Scenes Control
Chart-the-Course Movement

Refer to this booklet for more information:
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Understanding Yourself and Others:
An Introduction to Interaction Styles 2.0
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by Dr. Linda Berens

This model particularly helps distinguish _NFJ from _N_P.


Read some narrative descriptions of these other types in order to compare and get at best-fit.  It should really feel like "you."  It's not a bad idea to have other people who know you well read them over and give their opinion too.
INTJ INFP ENFJ

Narrative descriptions may be found in this (inexpensive) booklet (I think they're the best available.):
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The 16 Personality Types,
Descriptions for Self-Discovery
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by Dr. Linda Berens and Dr. Dario Nardi

An excerpt from this book may be found here.

Refer to this booklet for more information about this model:
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Understanding Yourself and Others:
An Introduction to the Personality Type Code
by Dr. Linda Berens and Dr. Dario Nardi

If I combine all three models now:  INFJs are Chart-the-Course Catalysts who prefer Ni Fe Ti Se (Ne Fi Te Si).  Whew!

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*To clarify what I mean by Type being "mutable" -- I don't believe personality type changes during the course of a person's lifetime, but I do think we look like different types at different times in our lives (even moment-to-moment), which is all the more argument for applying multiple models to determine best-fit.

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