INFJs have
a need to live "romantic" lives, whether or not they are involved in
an intimate relationship. I've seen INFJs commonly characterized as being
"Romantic idealists."
ROMANTIC:
4 a : marked by the imaginative or emotional appeal of what is heroic,
adventurous, remote, mysterious, or idealized
INFJs
yearn for romance. They dream of creating harmonious, even caring personal
relations, and they have a unique talent for helping people get along with each
other and work together for the good of all. Such interpersonal harmony might be
a romantic ideal, but then INFJs are incurable romantics who prefer to focus on
what might be, rather than what is.
The
real, practical world is only a starting place for INFJs; they believe that life
is filled with possibilities waiting to be realized, rich with meanings calling
out to be understood. This idea of a mystical or spiritual dimension to life,
the "not visible" or the "not yet" that can only be known
through intuition or by a leap of faith, is far more important to INFJs than the
world of material things -- although bringing visions to reality always plays
some part in their aspirations. As they grow older and move toward
mid-life, the need to "walk the talk" and have congruence around
making fantasy reality becomes more and more of a driving force.
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Do you
live a romantic life? How do you create, perpetuate, and sustain romance
in your life?
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A Poll
If
you are absolutely 100% confident your preferences are for INFJ, would you
participate in my poll about romance? And perhaps share some ways in
which you express your romantic nature or tips on how other INFJs might do so?
Please only vote if you are absolutely confident your preferences are
INFJ.
Don't worry, you can view the current poll results & tips by clicking on the
"view results" link at the bottom of the poll box.
