After five decades on this planet as an INFJ, I have two profound thoughts that other INFJs might benefit from knowing:

1) Certain things in life are not nearly as hard as other people make them out to be.

2) Certain things in life are rarely as easy as other people make them out to be.

There appears to be a nearly inverse relationship between the two.  What they call "easy," you will find hard.  What they call "hard," you will find easy.

If you don't get the hang of this early enough, you will miss living half of your life.

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